This is an art form that I am still learning. However, I have a pretty good idea where to begin. I am trying to treat my wife with the same grace and mercy that I receive from Jesus. Jesus does not expect me to be perfect. Neither will I expect perfection from my wife. This is not my own idea. Paul charges us in Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.
Love that girl. You have the perfect model in Jesus.